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2006.12.01

『温室デイズ』

オンライン書店ビーケーワン:温室デイズ

瀬尾まいこ『温室デイズ』角川書店 を読んだ。最近特に問題になっている「いじめ」がテーマの小説だった。

小、中学校という「温室」、でもそこでいじめを受ける主人公のみちるや、友だちの優子にとっては地獄だった。いじめにめげずがんばって登校するみちる。そんなみちるを傍観することしかできず、それに耐えかねてついにはクラスに行けなくなってしまう優子。

作者は現役の中学校の講師ということで、内容にかなりリアリティを感じた。こういうことが今現実に多くの学校で起こっていると考えると絶望的な気分になってしまう。この小説では、みちるの精神的な強さが救いになっているのだけど、自分だったらとても登校できないだろうなあ。

オカダも中学時代、同級生のグループにバカにされて、からかわれたときがあったのだけど、ちょっと仄めかしただけだったのに担任の先生がすぐ反応して対処してくれて、助かった経験がある。熱血漢の体育の先生で、すぐ手が出る人ではあったのだけど、今でも感謝している。その先生でなかったら、と思うとぞっとする。

でもこの小説では、担任の教師も見てみぬふりで、全く力になってくれないのだから救いがない。実際問題として、いじめがあっても先生が気づいて、それに対応するというのは難しいのだろうか。現実には、教師がいじめに荷担する例さえあったし。

親子の間に信頼関係があれば親に相談するはず、とか言われるけど、子どもにもプライドがあるし、親に心配かけたくないという気持ちもあるだろうし、それは難しいだろう。オカダも、親には一切話さなかったし。

いじめ問題について、sivadさんのエントリーイジメという統治システム経由でカラさんの日々雑感・いじめをテーマにしない理由を読んで、概ねそのとおりだと思った。いじめをなくすことはできないだろうけど、それをなんとか大事に至らせないための手立てはあるんじゃないか。

この小説でも、「スクールサポーター」として新人の教師が配属されてくる。目立った働きをするわけではないけど、こういう人がいるだけでも校内が違ってくるのだろう。

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オカダさん こんばんは。
この本、おっしゃるように現役教師によるものだということで、賛否両論あったらしいですね。著者はなかなか難しい立場に立たされたとか。

今日のオカダさんのエントリーを読ませていただいて、いじめに対して先生にもできることがあって、実際救われた人がいるんだということに驚きました。

私は、自分としてはいじめてるという感覚がなかったにしろ(多くの加害者はこう言いますよね)、相手からしたらいじめだったかも、という経験が1つじゃなくあります。結局こちらがどう思っていようと、相手が「いじめられている」と思えばいじめなわけですもんね。
で、当時を思い出すと、先生に何か言われたら私は態度を変えたか?というと、答えは即答でnoですので。
私にも私なりに理由があったんですが、これもきっと相手からみれば言い訳にしか聞こえないだろうと思います。

いじめについては思うところがたくさんあるけれど、結局「自分は人を傷つけたくせに」ということにいきつきます。元加害者である私も、今は自分の過ちに気づいて悔いていますが、それではきっと遅いんでしょうね。

Posted by: ciao* | 2006.12.01 at 10:39 PM

ciao*さん、こんばんは。
>この本、おっしゃるように現役教師によるものだということで、賛否両論あったらしいですね。著者はなかなか難しい立場に立たされたとか。
そうでしたか。そういうこともあるでしょうね。

どういうことがいじめになるのか、というのはなかなか微妙な問題だと思います。そこらへんは、コミュニケーションがうまくとれれば解決するのかもしれませんが、やっぱり子どもですからね。

自分の過ちに気づくのに遅すぎることはないと思います。その気持ちを相手に伝える機会があるといいですね。

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